some men are insecure. he is one of them. i doubt he wants a divorce. explain that diet leads to a healthy person and you dont want to die of a stroke one day. Ask him if he wants you “fat” and unhealthy paying medical bills? Im sure the anwer is NO.

If you feel good about your weighloss, then don’t worry about it. Sounds like, he is just jealous. Has he actually threatened divorce or is he just insecure of the attention? He should be encouraging you to feel better about yourself and if lossing weight does that, than he should support you.

You should sit down and talk to him, tell him your losing weight because you’d feel much better and healthier in doing so. Reasure that you love him very much but that you are doing for yourself.

First, let me congratulate you on your weight loss. It’s not uncommon at all for the husband to react this way when the wife is losing weight & getting extra attention from others. He shouldn’t feel threatened but he is, probably due to a security issue within himself. Before you lost weight, he felt secure in his marriage because you weren’t getting all that attention. Now, you are, & he can’t handle it. You’re right, you are still the same person on the inside, but try & convince your husband of that. You don’t see the attention others are giving you but apparently, he does. Maybe when you’re out in public, he sees men turn around & look at you. He shouldn’t feel threatened, if anything, he should feel proud that he’s married to you & proud of how successful you’ve been in losing weight & becoming even healthier. I’m sorry there’s stress in your life right now, but perhaps you two should enter into therapy, so he can learn how not to feel threatened by your new look. I’ve seen shows on tv about couples such as yourself are going through & it’s not always easy. Just give it time & reassure your husband how much you love him & lost weight first for yourself & tell him how good you feel about yourself now that you have lost weight. He should be so proud of you & I’m sure deep down he does but he’s insecure & therefore, he’s not verbally telling you what you need to hear from the one person who matters the most…..him. Good luck & hang in there! You’ll just have to wotk through it together somehow.

well send him a love note each day, Good for you on your
weight loss. I wish you the best.

I would have to say that he shouldn’t be acting like that just because your losing weight. your self esteem is important if you don’t feel good about yourself how are you suppose to be happy with yourself. I think that he is afraid of losing you to someone else.

He’s feeling insecure and the best thing you can do is constantly tell him that he is the man for you and you dont have any plans of going anywhere…

Congrats on the weight loss and don’t stop until you are happy…

It sounds like your husband is insecure and actually thinks no-One else will want you if you are heavier. Theres a lot of men in this world that Like heavier women. He should be happy for you and Trust you, as long as he has no reason to think other wise. Ask him to diet with you. Reassure him losing weight is the best thing for your health, and that he will always be #1 in your life..

I think thats just jeoulousy…you keep losing that weigh.

Lavish him with your tender charms. This is what he fell in love with. Demonstrative assurance should squelch his fear. His insecurity is his NOT yours. Honor your health. It would be selfish of him to expect otherwise of you. Besides, you’ll be around much longer to love if you stay healthy, right? #1, keep communication open. If he keeps whimpering, see a councilor, It’s worth it. He’s feeling a degree af weakness, anyway, when yu look at it. Dig it up and bury it! AGAPE